The First Dating : What Next?
The good news is that you've already done the hard part: the test of first appointment is behind you.
You just swim into the unknown, you finally have some tangible things that you hang up. Now, the adventure, the real, is just beginning. Here are some tips to help you get through the second appointment ...
IF THE FIRST DATING WAS NOT A SUCCESS ...
... And you still want to get a second, is that you appreciate enormously the interviewee, but for some reason, you have not managed to be comfortable with it. Far from being a sign of an irrevocable incompatibility, these first forced and awkward moments simply can show great timidity on your part or hers. It is often with the people we most appreciate that it is difficult to be immediately self. Because we just feel that the person in front of us has this indescribable, this special sensitivity so in tune with ours than any protective masquerade becomes de facto impossible.
If this is indeed what happened during this first appointment, it is best just to remind the person concerned. No mail or text message subject to the usual mistakes: Choose a time of day when you know the object of your desires has time to speak, in the early evening, for example, and call it. Tell him honestly that you enjoy and would like a chance to meet you again. Have him see you in a place of his choice, which she / he has his habits and will thus be more confident (e).
IF THE FIRST DATING TOOK PLACE LIKE IN A DREAM ...
... The only real problem is to curb your enthusiasm a tad to avoid scaring your future love.
Do not rush to the phone the day after that first appointment. It is not about to let marinate the other, but simply to enjoy these first moments: Learn how to desire, is learning to be desired self. And it's so good that it would be a shame to miss. Then you can either send a mail or text message to tell him how much you enjoyed the first date, and leave the initiative to remind you to schedule a second.
Either wait a few days (but no more than one week, anyway) without messages of some kind whatsoever, and / recall you even suggest a second meeting.
And for this second appointment, choose a less informal place as the first: a restaurant that you know and you have memories, for example. After a first date, it's be a little more in the second, so take a few more risks.
